I love Romans 12:1-2! One of the things I notice about this verse is the fact it contains in it all three elements that make us human. Look what the verse says. I'll bold the three parts so you can see it too. Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God—this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
We are three in one; body, soul and spirit. In the verse it says "mind" and that is one of the aspects that make up our soul. Our soul encompasses our minds, will and emotions.
With that in mind let me ask you a question. "What is our most powerful daily spiritual act?"
As you go down the list of things it could be: prayer, reading the Bible, worship, listening to the Holy Spirit, etc. Let me say this, "you'd be correct with any one of those." BUT let me hone in on the one word in this question that we skip over that we need to look at to get a better answer.
I'm human. I don't worship daily. Sorry if that offends you. But lets be real. Of the many Christians you know, including yourself, do they do everything they should?
Read the Bible daily?
Hear God daily?
Walk in the fullness of Grace daily?
Live in the fruit of the Spirit daily?
I'm like you, I'm working towards it but I don't do it daily. I have good moments and not so good moments. Like you I'm working on shortening the distance between the good and bad ones.
Here is what I believe when I look at scripture and see the revelation of the fullness of who we are as humans following Christ.
"Our most powerful spiritual act is the daily ability to make choices."
With that in mind, that's why I can say the list you and I named about prayer and reading the bible and all those from above-- it's that important to do them. Because it renews our minds. With renewed minds our spirit and life is transformed.
Here's the issue. What you believe determines your choices which leads to a desired outcome.
How many times have you seen (or even been) someone who doesn't like a certain outcome; with a job, a date, a mate, a church? So what do they do? Different choice: change jobs, change churches, change spouse. A little time goes by and "oops! don't like this, time to make a different choice."
The problem will always continue on a "marry-go-round" lifestyle as long as the issue of "beliefs" is never dealt with.
What do you believe about your job? Spouse? Church? Family? Parents? Money? God?
Until those beliefs line up with what God says (and not what you or I think) we are confronted to live in the outcomes that are less than what God intended for us; because of our choices. And the sad truth is we many times we have to live in the consequences of someone else's choice.
Choices contain in them a level of spiritual responsibility.
My faith can affect your faith. Either for good or bad.
I'm the man today because of great Godly men and women faith. How many people have lost faith because of the fall of another?
Our choices matter. Everyday you and I have this awesome power to put our free will to the test and say, "am I going to do this my way or God's way? Am I going to trust in His methods or mans wisdom? Am I going to do what is right or what is Kingdom?
"This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live 20 and that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.'" Deut. 30:18-20